The Good Old Days?
You hear so many people whining today that the world is so cold and aloof and impersonal and people no longer relate– and oh God what happened to Mayberry RFD?
To hear them recount it, there is a monster at work here. It is called the Internet and it is driving people apart. No one even knows what emotions are. Instead of talking to each other, writing to each other, they hide behind email. It is a bloodless, forbidden planet. A far cry from the good old days.
But were they really so good?
I write a bunch of blogs that fly out in cyberspace to all kinds of perfect strangers. None are hand written. None of the envelopes are embossed with melted candle wax. None even have envelopes.
What a cold bastard I am. What a frozen electronic world I communicate in.
Just ask the prisoners of the “Good Old Days.” They’ll tell you.
But then, just for the sake of fair and balanced, you will have to ask someone else. Actually, thousands of others. They are the human beings who read my electronic musings and who write back the most personal, sensitive, revealing, heartfelt, vulnerable responses one could imagine writing - not only to a perfect stranger - but to a deep and loyal friend for life.
And I think I know why. When people communicate electronically, they (not all, but many) feel more comfortable than doing it the way it was done in the Good Old Days.
Remember this when it comes to pitches and stories and letters to media contacts and by-line stories. Except for a few clingers to the sides of the Titanic, no one cares how the message is communicated.
They just care about the message.
That will never go out of style.
Mark Stevens
CEO



on March 31st, 2008 at 10:07 am
Great post. There is also the fact that many people are better written communicators than verbal communicators and, while no one ever had a problem with this in the days of the hand-written letter, it is often discounted when it comes electronically. Think of some of the most personal kinds of communications, like a “get well” card. Is a “get well” more powerful when you get it while you still feel sick or the day after? The same goes for PR. If you can pitch a story that is relevant to something a journalist or blogger just wrote hours ago then you’ve probably connected on a more meaningful level than when he used to get all his faxed press releases when the mail boy came around at 2pm.
on April 1st, 2008 at 10:27 pm
Mark, Good post. BTW do you Twitter. If so, what are your thoughts on it?